Never Own Someone Else's Anger

You must always remember that you are looking for solutions. You are not looking to win or be right. When someone else yells at you or blames you for being annoying in their life, what they are really saying is “Why don’t you be more like me? Then I wouldn’t be so annoyed.” That kind of thinking needs to be eliminated. You must say to yourself about this person “You are who you are and you are behaving in the only way you know how - I accept you.”